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» Infamous mediocrity.: Fuck this shit.

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

This Korra fandom bullshit is going to be the death of the last bit of my childhood. Not only are my ex-idols up their own asses with pride, but there are actually people in this fandom enabling this BULLSHIT behavior with their BULLSHIT privileged outlooks on their own BULLSHIT society.

THIS IS…

so sifu-kisu shouldn’t be allowed to exercise his right to the first amendment because it offends you? don’t you think that’s a little bit “privileged” of you?

First of all, did I EVER fucking say that? No. I said EVERYONE in this fandom can express however they feel, whenever they want. No one told Sifu to shut up - they told him he was being offensive and how he was being offensive. The thing is when you get too up your own ass you assume anyone who has a different opinion than you is just “butthurt” or “sensitive” when they have as much right to feel what they feel as anyone else. And when you start acting like an uppity child, people WILL call you out on it.

Second of all, there’s no way you can be this fucking basic. Really.

actually, it appears a good handful of people were very insulting and disrespectful to the guy and treated him with a lot of hostility, sort of like you are now. whether or not i find people taking offense to his reblog ridiculous (which i do, by the way, and i’ll explain that a little more in detail in a second), i don’t think anyone deserves to be treated rudely like he was over anything.

now to get to the actual content, i’m just going to get straight to the point and say that his post was not sexist. pointing out common gender differences and/or gender tropes is merely observational humor. sexism is gender discrimination, which is clearly not what sifu-kisu was doing, as no one was being discriminated against. would you be offended if he reblogged a joke about how men are terrible at putting things back into the fridge in an orderly fashion, or if he reblogged a joke about how men are generally bad at multitasking?

Yeah, people are being disrespectful because they’re mad, and he’s being disrespectful because he thought it was “funny.” And if you think this was a personal attack on Sifu AS A PERSON then you have some re-reading to do. And PLEASE don’t get me started on your bullshit definition of sexism. I’m neither going to explain this basic information to you nor waste my time trying to convince you your privileged opinion of what is and what is not sexist is indeed bullshit as well.

I suggest you find another blog regarding the REALITY of sexism and stereotyping rather than how YOU perceive it as a privileged and/or ignorant individual who can easily brush it off as “no big deal.”

And if you’re going to ask me to spoon-feed you the obvious with every post I make on my blog, I suggest you unfollow me now because I honestly don’t have the patience.

oh, don’t worry, i don’t follow you.

on that note, what’s with all this “privileged” noise? how do you know that someone is privileged based on an opinion they hold? you keep calling me privileged, but i’m curious, please explain how you know that i am privileged

Notice I said privileged and/or ignorant. AND/OR.

how do you know i’m ignorant? am i ignorant because i don’t choose to accept your opinion on it, or agree with you? do you believe that your opinion has to be correct, and mine is, in turn, ignorant?

You’re ignorant because you aren’t aware of very REAL social repercussions of historically oppressive sentiments. You’re ignorant because you invalidate other people’s justified emotions. You’re ignorant because you have yet to give me a VALID reason why the people that are mad at Sifu are just too “sensitive.” And you’re ignorant because you assume pointing out the obvious lack of logic in an unfunny stereotype is worse than encouraging the stereotyping itself.

I’m done with you. I’m going to bed.

i don’t invalidate anything. if you think my comments make your emotions feel less valid to you, or that sifu reblogging a generally harmless gender joke makes the legend of korra less enjoyable to you, then that’s your problem.

i believe people getting mad at sifu are oversensitive, but that is my opinion, i can’t really support that with fact. but as i said before, if you’d like to live your life getting offended over things that the majority of the rest of the world doesn’t see a problem with, then that’s all good — i imagine that sort of thinking would make you very unhappy (which you have proven with your extremely angry responses while i’ve only been asking questions), but whatever floats your boat.

to be honest though i’m not sure what planet you’re from, but i have never been around a crowd of people that would get offended by a joke about men helping their wives with opening jars. it’s actually pretty endearing. don’t you think it’s nice that people sometimes count on men to open jars? i mean, if you don’t want a man to open your jar for you feel free to open your own jars but is it really so bad of a stereotype that men are good at opening jars?

and okay goodnight!!!

» Infamous mediocrity.: Fuck this shit.

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

This Korra fandom bullshit is going to be the death of the last bit of my childhood. Not only are my ex-idols up their own asses with pride, but there are actually people in this fandom enabling this BULLSHIT behavior with their BULLSHIT privileged outlooks on their own BULLSHIT society.

THIS IS…

so sifu-kisu shouldn’t be allowed to exercise his right to the first amendment because it offends you? don’t you think that’s a little bit “privileged” of you?

First of all, did I EVER fucking say that? No. I said EVERYONE in this fandom can express however they feel, whenever they want. No one told Sifu to shut up - they told him he was being offensive and how he was being offensive. The thing is when you get too up your own ass you assume anyone who has a different opinion than you is just “butthurt” or “sensitive” when they have as much right to feel what they feel as anyone else. And when you start acting like an uppity child, people WILL call you out on it.

Second of all, there’s no way you can be this fucking basic. Really.

actually, it appears a good handful of people were very insulting and disrespectful to the guy and treated him with a lot of hostility, sort of like you are now. whether or not i find people taking offense to his reblog ridiculous (which i do, by the way, and i’ll explain that a little more in detail in a second), i don’t think anyone deserves to be treated rudely like he was over anything.

now to get to the actual content, i’m just going to get straight to the point and say that his post was not sexist. pointing out common gender differences and/or gender tropes is merely observational humor. sexism is gender discrimination, which is clearly not what sifu-kisu was doing, as no one was being discriminated against. would you be offended if he reblogged a joke about how men are terrible at putting things back into the fridge in an orderly fashion, or if he reblogged a joke about how men are generally bad at multitasking?

Yeah, people are being disrespectful because they’re mad, and he’s being disrespectful because he thought it was “funny.” And if you think this was a personal attack on Sifu AS A PERSON then you have some re-reading to do. And PLEASE don’t get me started on your bullshit definition of sexism. I’m neither going to explain this basic information to you nor waste my time trying to convince you your privileged opinion of what is and what is not sexist is indeed bullshit as well.

I suggest you find another blog regarding the REALITY of sexism and stereotyping rather than how YOU perceive it as a privileged and/or ignorant individual who can easily brush it off as “no big deal.”

And if you’re going to ask me to spoon-feed you the obvious with every post I make on my blog, I suggest you unfollow me now because I honestly don’t have the patience.

oh, don’t worry, i don’t follow you.

on that note, what’s with all this “privileged” noise? how do you know that someone is privileged based on an opinion they hold? you keep calling me privileged, but i’m curious, please explain how you know that i am privileged

Notice I said privileged and/or ignorant. AND/OR.

how do you know i’m ignorant? am i ignorant because i don’t choose to accept your opinion on it, or agree with you? do you believe that your opinion has to be correct, and mine is, in turn, ignorant?

» Infamous mediocrity.: Fuck this shit.

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

This Korra fandom bullshit is going to be the death of the last bit of my childhood. Not only are my ex-idols up their own asses with pride, but there are actually people in this fandom enabling this BULLSHIT behavior with their BULLSHIT privileged outlooks on their own BULLSHIT society.

THIS IS…

so sifu-kisu shouldn’t be allowed to exercise his right to the first amendment because it offends you? don’t you think that’s a little bit “privileged” of you?

First of all, did I EVER fucking say that? No. I said EVERYONE in this fandom can express however they feel, whenever they want. No one told Sifu to shut up - they told him he was being offensive and how he was being offensive. The thing is when you get too up your own ass you assume anyone who has a different opinion than you is just “butthurt” or “sensitive” when they have as much right to feel what they feel as anyone else. And when you start acting like an uppity child, people WILL call you out on it.

Second of all, there’s no way you can be this fucking basic. Really.

actually, it appears a good handful of people were very insulting and disrespectful to the guy and treated him with a lot of hostility, sort of like you are now. whether or not i find people taking offense to his reblog ridiculous (which i do, by the way, and i’ll explain that a little more in detail in a second), i don’t think anyone deserves to be treated rudely like he was over anything.

now to get to the actual content, i’m just going to get straight to the point and say that his post was not sexist. pointing out common gender differences and/or gender tropes is merely observational humor. sexism is gender discrimination, which is clearly not what sifu-kisu was doing, as no one was being discriminated against. would you be offended if he reblogged a joke about how men are terrible at putting things back into the fridge in an orderly fashion, or if he reblogged a joke about how men are generally bad at multitasking?

Yeah, people are being disrespectful because they’re mad, and he’s being disrespectful because he thought it was “funny.” And if you think this was a personal attack on Sifu AS A PERSON then you have some re-reading to do. And PLEASE don’t get me started on your bullshit definition of sexism. I’m neither going to explain this basic information to you nor waste my time trying to convince you your privileged opinion of what is and what is not sexist is indeed bullshit as well.

I suggest you find another blog regarding the REALITY of sexism and stereotyping rather than how YOU perceive it as a privileged and/or ignorant individual who can easily brush it off as “no big deal.”

And if you’re going to ask me to spoon-feed you the obvious with every post I make on my blog, I suggest you unfollow me now because I honestly don’t have the patience.

oh, don’t worry, i don’t follow you.

on that note, what’s with all this “privileged” noise? how do you know that someone is privileged based on an opinion they hold? you keep calling me privileged, but i’m curious, please explain how you know that i am privileged

» Infamous mediocrity.: Fuck this shit.

captainhawkins:

megaboss:

captainhawkins:

This Korra fandom bullshit is going to be the death of the last bit of my childhood. Not only are my ex-idols up their own asses with pride, but there are actually people in this fandom enabling this BULLSHIT behavior with their BULLSHIT privileged outlooks on their own BULLSHIT society.

THIS IS…

so sifu-kisu shouldn’t be allowed to exercise his right to the first amendment because it offends you? don’t you think that’s a little bit “privileged” of you?

First of all, did I EVER fucking say that? No. I said EVERYONE in this fandom can express however they feel, whenever they want. No one told Sifu to shut up - they told him he was being offensive and how he was being offensive. The thing is when you get too up your own ass you assume anyone who has a different opinion than you is just “butthurt” or “sensitive” when they have as much right to feel what they feel as anyone else. And when you start acting like an uppity child, people WILL call you out on it.

Second of all, there’s no way you can be this fucking basic. Really.

actually, it appears a good handful of people were very insulting and disrespectful to the guy and treated him with a lot of hostility, sort of like you are now. whether or not i find people taking offense to his reblog ridiculous (which i do, by the way, and i’ll explain that a little more in detail in a second), i don’t think anyone deserves to be treated rudely like he was over anything.

now to get to the actual content, i’m just going to get straight to the point and say that his post was not sexist. pointing out common gender differences and/or gender tropes is merely observational humor. sexism is gender discrimination, which is clearly not what sifu-kisu was doing, as no one was being discriminated against. would you be offended if he reblogged a joke about how men are terrible at putting things back into the fridge in an orderly fashion, or if he reblogged a joke about how men are generally bad at multitasking?

» Infamous mediocrity.: Fuck this shit.

captainhawkins:

This Korra fandom bullshit is going to be the death of the last bit of my childhood. Not only are my ex-idols up their own asses with pride, but there are actually people in this fandom enabling this BULLSHIT behavior with their BULLSHIT privileged outlooks on their own BULLSHIT society.

THIS IS…

so sifu-kisu shouldn’t be allowed to exercise his right to the first amendment because it offends you? don’t you think that’s a little bit “privileged” of you?

sifu-kisu:

jhenne-bean:

sifu-kisu:

meelo-be-the-leaf:

fangirlingforeverz:

sifu-kisu:

zuzuandmako:

sifu-kisu:

zeroatthebone:

sifu-kisu:

Let me guess? This is sexist! :D

Seriously? How about you just admit that you messed up with that stupid single women joke and get on with your life? 

Okay I messed up:(

I feel so much better now:D

Sifu.
WATER YOU DOING.

Same as you,
pretty much whatever I want, 

whenever I want. Pass the applesauce?

I will probably get unfollowed by you for this. That will suck because I truthfully do admire you as a person, Sifu Kisu. But I do not admire this.
I generally enjoy seeing you pop up on my dash board. It really does make my day, you’re funny and you’re not afraid to say what’s on your mind. I respect that, I really do.
And you know what? Sometimes people on tumblr really do blow shit out of proportion. This is your tumblr and you’re free to do what you want with it. For example, in my opinion - it was blown out of proportion that you need your blog to be PG. Fuck that. Be as sexual as you want. There’s nothing wrong with sex and you didn’t do anything wrong in my opinion with your responses in that regard.
But at the same time, this is a fandom where the people tend to be very conscientious of these issues. You reblogged a photo that was sexist. People weren’t calling you sexist, but the photo that you reblogged and were confused by it because they didn’t expect something like that from you. It seems like now you intend to run with this however, and label it under freedom of speech. You do have the freedom to say whatever you want, but if people get offended, they will call you out on it.
Not because they hate you, but because they admire you and they don’t want to see someone that they admire saying things like that. You may not have meant anything sexist by reblogging the image - found it funny, even, but this kind of rhetoric has been around forever and is around specifically to repress women - telling them that they need a man. You may think that it’s not a big deal, but it’s generally the little things that contribute to the overall problem.
I’m not going to unfollow you for this - Like I said, I respect and admire you and I get a chuckle out of stuff that I see you post.
But at the same time, I wouldn’t be being true to myself if I said that I was completely alright with this.

This is a really nice way of saying “sexists are assholes”.Basically this: you’re an asshole for not understanding why people are calling you out on your shit. You’re an asshole if you think that being disrespectful for women, in a patriarchal society, is blanketed under “freedom of speech”. Basically, none of that was funny, none of that was cool. If you get your shit called out on, you SHOULD figure out why instead of just hawking it up to oversensitivity.   This image in itself isn’t sexist. But other shit that’s posted.. for fucks sake. Doesn’t take that much to figure out it’s disrespectful.  

Seriously do you really think that you can speak to me disrespectfully all the while blaming me for all of human societies social ills without me telling you to go and fuck yourself?
Whatever your issues are with the world at large they have absolutely nothing to do with me.
I found the image that I posted incredibly hilarious. It was a joke and once I saw that some people were offended, I deleted it and still got attacked for it.
And now here we are with you calling me names?

Can I have your number!?!?!

NAW BRO NAW D:
CRITICAL READING FAILURE.
Your jokes don’t exist in a magical vacuum where they don’t contribute to the societal ills they draw from. 
(It’s good that you deleted it, but taking it one step further “Hey guys, I thought this was funny, but someone pointed out to me that it’s really problematic in nature. Sorry for posting it, don’t expect to see anything like that again.” would have been ideal.)
Apologizing for doing something offensive isn’t a bad thing, or a weak thing. 
And of course, once you apologize, you could totally let the remaining hate/attacks roll off. It’s pretty fucking fun. 
#GROWING EXPERIENCE  > defensively snide “I bet this is sexist too trololol” posts. 

Thanks for writing me a script….
I’ll dedicate my life to living it the way that you think I should, Okay?



it is always so eerily depressing watching tumblr get offended over anything and everything.

i don’t know what sifu-kisu reblogged, but whatever it was, i highly doubt he deserved all this whining.

sifu-kisu:

jhenne-bean:

sifu-kisu:

meelo-be-the-leaf:

fangirlingforeverz:

sifu-kisu:

zuzuandmako:

sifu-kisu:

zeroatthebone:

sifu-kisu:

Let me guess? This is sexist! :D

Seriously? How about you just admit that you messed up with that stupid single women joke and get on with your life? 

Okay I messed up:(

I feel so much better now:D

Sifu.

WATER YOU DOING.

Same as you,

pretty much whatever I want, 

whenever I want. Pass the applesauce?

I will probably get unfollowed by you for this. That will suck because I truthfully do admire you as a person, Sifu Kisu. But I do not admire this.

I generally enjoy seeing you pop up on my dash board. It really does make my day, you’re funny and you’re not afraid to say what’s on your mind. I respect that, I really do.

And you know what? Sometimes people on tumblr really do blow shit out of proportion. This is your tumblr and you’re free to do what you want with it. For example, in my opinion - it was blown out of proportion that you need your blog to be PG. Fuck that. Be as sexual as you want. There’s nothing wrong with sex and you didn’t do anything wrong in my opinion with your responses in that regard.

But at the same time, this is a fandom where the people tend to be very conscientious of these issues. You reblogged a photo that was sexist. People weren’t calling you sexist, but the photo that you reblogged and were confused by it because they didn’t expect something like that from you. It seems like now you intend to run with this however, and label it under freedom of speech. You do have the freedom to say whatever you want, but if people get offended, they will call you out on it.

Not because they hate you, but because they admire you and they don’t want to see someone that they admire saying things like that. You may not have meant anything sexist by reblogging the image - found it funny, even, but this kind of rhetoric has been around forever and is around specifically to repress women - telling them that they need a man. You may think that it’s not a big deal, but it’s generally the little things that contribute to the overall problem.

I’m not going to unfollow you for this - Like I said, I respect and admire you and I get a chuckle out of stuff that I see you post.

But at the same time, I wouldn’t be being true to myself if I said that I was completely alright with this.

This is a really nice way of saying “sexists are assholes”.

Basically this: you’re an asshole for not understanding why people are calling you out on your shit. You’re an asshole if you think that being disrespectful for women, in a patriarchal society, is blanketed under “freedom of speech”. 

Basically, none of that was funny, none of that was cool. If you get your shit called out on, you SHOULD figure out why instead of just hawking it up to oversensitivity.   

This image in itself isn’t sexist. But other shit that’s posted.. for fucks sake. Doesn’t take that much to figure out it’s disrespectful.  

Seriously do you really think that you can speak to me disrespectfully all the while blaming me for all of human societies social ills without me telling you to go and fuck yourself?

Whatever your issues are with the world at large they have absolutely nothing to do with me.

I found the image that I posted incredibly hilarious. It was a joke and once I saw that some people were offended, I deleted it and still got attacked for it.

And now here we are with you calling me names?

Can I have your number!?!?!

NAW BRO NAW D:

CRITICAL READING FAILURE.

Your jokes don’t exist in a magical vacuum where they don’t contribute to the societal ills they draw from. 

(It’s good that you deleted it, but taking it one step further “Hey guys, I thought this was funny, but someone pointed out to me that it’s really problematic in nature. Sorry for posting it, don’t expect to see anything like that again.” would have been ideal.)

Apologizing for doing something offensive isn’t a bad thing, or a weak thing. 

And of course, once you apologize, you could totally let the remaining hate/attacks roll off. It’s pretty fucking fun. 

#GROWING EXPERIENCE  > defensively snide “I bet this is sexist too trololol” posts. 

Thanks for writing me a script….

I’ll dedicate my life to living it the way that you think I should, Okay?

it is always so eerily depressing watching tumblr get offended over anything and everything.

i don’t know what sifu-kisu reblogged, but whatever it was, i highly doubt he deserved all this whining.